The Rudest Book Ever by Shwetabh Gangwar

                                       The Rudest Book Ever by Shwetabh Gangwar is an easy read and relatable guide for people who are into some kind of trouble. The book will make you embrace yourself as you reach the end. The author has tried to make a reality check for us making us realize what kind of stuff we are putting ourselves into and the most important question, 'WHY SO?'.

As the name suggests, the language of the book is slightly rude which is fine as the book is written by a problem solver, a person who knows how to deal with people and their issues and who's remarkable at his work. Shwetabh Gangwar has tried to raise the fact that we creatures don't have any idea about our lives and still, we try to poke our nose into the matter of others and their lifestyle. Instead of taking charge of our lives, we try to control others, sometimes we even try to change the thought process of that person just because he/she doesn't seem to fit in our category because of their ideologies.

What we need to understand is every person is different, and so is their perception, their way of taking things, their response to troubles, and their methods to achieve the goals. Shwetabh Gangwar has deliberately tried to hurt your feelings by using a harsh tone in this book. His views are straightforward and blunt. 

In this book, you will find several life-changing points, some of them are;

• Dealing with rejections
• Why people see others as good or dumb
• Why do we always need to search for happiness
• Is there anything like perfect parenting
• What do you think of other people and why so
• And last but not the least, the author wants the audience to focus on 'how to think' instead of 'what to think'

If we can understand this concept, there is no need to pile up various self-helping books and watching videos related to that. But usually, it is way more difficult to apply practically than it is said. We people then focus on 'LEARNING HOW TO THINK'. It creates a notion in our mind that we should first learn how to think and then everything is sorted. We all create a fantasy of having higher intelligence. For this, we join certain cults, become followers, and use our brains in a manner that we don't want to.

Gangwar says that we live in a world where people celebrate knowledge and not intelligence. Some say that these two are the same concepts, some say that knowledge is much important than intelligence. And we people are one of those who prevail these ideas. So, all we need is to make ourselves capable of being worthy of and to others as well. This book will make you confront your alter ego and in ways that you can explore yourself truly.

In the introduction part of the book, the author himself mentions that this book is not going to teach you guys anything, it is only written to make you think. He also talks about freeing your mind from all the craps and bullshits you have been facing lately. Well, I am not sure if this book can 'FREE' you from the burden and trouble you are facing but definitely, it could be of great help if you want to learn ' HOW TO DEAL WITH YOURSELF' rather than ' HOW TO DEAL WITH OTHERS'.

So, I think it's worth giving a shot to this book.

ABOUT THE BOOK

Book: The Rudest Book Ever

Genre: Non-Fiction

Author: Shwetabh Gangwar

Publisher: Westland Publications

Price: 299/-